I’ve known guys just as attractive as me who remained virgins into their 20S.
Awesome, smart, funny guys, with female friends and a reputation for being amazing.
Whatever your motivation, there’s really no reason to feel ashamed, or even embarrassed.
Actually, there are some facts about being a virgin that you might find pretty encouraging.
To be “out” means to be free, spontaneous, uninhibited and unafraid of judgment.
So can you imagine going through this erratic, emotional roller coaster ride, and then being demanded attention by the compelling desire to start down the long-awaited and fantasized path toward man-to-man dating?
In fact, about 30 percent of Americans say they have had one or no sex partners since turning 18. That’s a fairly surprising figure, since so much of our culture sends the message that practically everyone is having sex all the time, and with lots and lots of partners.It may be that, as the Carell character says, “It just hasn’t happened yet” for you.Or you may have made a conscious decision not to sleep with someone until you’re married, or until you’ve met just the right person.You’d be the perfect height for shower sex.”What I didn’t want to tell him—what I didn’t want to tell anyone I met on Tinder—was that I’m a virgin, with no plans to surrender the v-card anytime soon.In a time when most sexual choices are met with applause and approval, my choice to wait is one that still makes other people uncomfortable.